You completed college. You found a job. It may not be the dream career job you are really after, however, it is a step forward in this thing called life. You are finally in full throttle adulthood. Does it ever feel like you have it all together, yet you are completely lost all at the same time? If so, you are not alone. Who am I and why do I care: I am Michelle Niehues, a Marriage and Family Therapist with New Leaf Counseling in Topeka, Kansas.